HERE are words from the Bible which contain wisdom which is much needed in society today. Here are words with which anyone can identify. Here are good words which will bring peace, and with peace happiness.

It is a fact that we human beings naturally react with anger when we are subject to words of criticism, or unkind words, or words we feel are wrong or unjust. We naturally seek to defend ourselves from hurt, unkindness, or what we feel is unjust, and much more. When this happens our response more often than not will be in the form of retaliation.

In such a situation what is the usual result? The result is the stirring up of anger on both sides which grows as the confrontation proceeds. When this happens things can get tragically out off hand, and war and hurt is ther only result.

How true the words of this proverb are when they say a harsh word stirs up anger. Things can become so bad that enmity becomes permanent. How sad it is to find a quarrel that lasts for many years.

However there is a way forward which this proverb makes clear. It says 'A gentle answer turns away wrath'. When we are able to control our temper and answer gently and kindly, there is always peace as the result. It is like throwing water on flames. The flames are put out, and harm is avoided.

How wonderful it would be if everyone took this proverb to heart! How happy is the person who heeds this proverb. We cannot expect that always the one saying harsh words will change, but even is they don't it is hard to continue a quarrel if one person will no be provoked. However often friendship, and even lasting friendship is the result of the gentle answer. On the other hand no good comes out of harsh answers.